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anonymous
writes:Is this guy taunting me? Can anyone help me understand what is going on with this guy.I met a guy of 52 on a paid dating site this summer.He seemed very keen and interested. We meet up about 6 times and I spent the night with him on the last accasion. In between this he disappeared a few times but came back. I asked him what he wanted and he said, let's spend time together and see what happens.He wasn't active on his profile when he told me this.So the last time I saw him was 2 weeks ago.After I spent the night I texted him once and he wasn't very responsive. So I left things and haven't heard from him.Now he's rejoined the dating site and is winking at me.Does this guy want my attention or is he just getting a kick out of playing games with me.I get that he's not interested in pursuing me anymore so why does he continue to behave like this.I haven't really done much chasing with this guy but assumed that if he was interesed he'd let me know especially as if he can text me one minute saying he's really looking forward to seeing me but then vanishing the next..What gives??
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (16 November 2015):
 Yep, I agree with Honeypie.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 November 2015):
 He is interested in lining you up for some more casual sex. A "wink" on a dating site doesn't mean interest in YOU as a person.
5 dates, then sex, then vanish act. And now back on the dating site.
I don't think he is taunting you, I think he is on a fishing expedition. Looking to see what might bite. He knows YOU bit once and if other options has dried up, maybe he is hoping you will bite again.
He COULD have contacted you OFF the site - surely after 6 dates and sex, he HAS your phone number?
Personally, I'd block him.
But it all comes down to WHAT you are looking for. A you looking for a serious relationship? A life partner? Or someone to mess around with here and there. IF you are looking for the former, I don't think he is it.
By the by, do you know for a fact that he is single?
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