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writes: I've been going out very happily with a new boyfriend since late August. He's been very attentive and very gentlemanly, even as a lover - but we would see each other about once a week. He is very overweight and drinks a lot. However, recently he's been very distant and we last saw each other about a two weeks or so ago and he hasn't called since. Should I call him to ask him what's going on, or should I assume that he's not interested in me for a steady relationship ?
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reader, AgonyAunt +, writes (28 November 2005):
Don't assume, the last thing you want is to mentally break up with thsi guy only for him to turn up a wek later do you! No, call him, text him, whatever and ask him honestly what is going on. How long was it into the relationship did you sleep togther, what could of happened her is he could have gotten what he wanted and now wants to move on, perhaps not the answer you looking for but that'll be men for you. How much do you really like this guy? Enough to stay in this relationship or do you want to get out of this relationship yourself? Do you get on with his friends, as unfortunately men do listen to their mates however stupid their advice may be, so if your not top of their christmas list thsi coul dhave influenced him and subsequnetly thsi could be the aftermath behaviour. Th ebest thing to do right now is to get hold of him and ask him whats going on, don't make it sound as though you are lost and helpless, just explain you feel this has become a very distant realtionship and ask if he is still interested because if he's not just say that you've got a couple of date offers and you want to give them an answer soon...if he's not interested he soon will be...!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2005): yeh i think you should and tell him how you feel he understand and if he does`nt well his not worth it but just talk to him and tell him how you feel
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