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writes:Well, I am 15 years old and for the past 2 months I have been talking to this guy who is 17 years old. We have only talked over the phone we never actually met in person. For the past 2 months me and him would talk over the phone daily he was always the one who would call.I started to have feelings for him and he started to have feelings towards me also.We were supposed to meet last weekend but we never actually called each other over the phone or anything.I was like always waiting for his phone call but he never called.So that night I look at his Myspace page and it turns out that day he had got a girlfriend so I was like ok. We didnt talk over the phone for a couple of days. On Tuesday at night he calls me and asks me why I've never called him and I just didnt know what to say. He told me that the day me and him were supposed to meet he was in Tri-Cities at a friends house.He told me that he was waiting for my phone call all day to hang out. So at night he drives back home and the roads are icy so he was taking a curve when his car just flipped. He told me that at the hospital one of his friends who is a girl would go to see him and bring him flowers and stuff like that well one day she brings him a card that says "would you be interested in going out with me?"He told me that he thought about it all day and he told her yes that he would go out with her. Then he told me that he would've said no to her if only I would've called. He told me that he wanted to know if he was special to me which is why he never called. Before me and him hung up he told me that he likes me and that he wants me to never forget him. He told me that he wants me to call him when am bored. Throughout the whole conservation he would call me 'baby' and 'babe'. He also said that he wished i wouldve been there for him while he was in the hospital.Is this guy for real?Is he just playing with me?Should I keep talking to him as friends? Am not going to lie I still care about him a lot. What should I do?
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reader, Ask.Me.Anything.  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 I cant tell wether he's real or not, but a word of warning; if u do go an meet him, dont go alone. you dont know who he could really be, so bring ur best friend with u. good luck!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 I have to be completly honest; anybody giving you advice will be unable to say 100% for certain whether this guy is telling the truth or not. Having said that reading this question it all seemed like a little too convenient. I would be careful of this guy, it sounds like a highly unlikely story to me. It's possible that he has always had a gf or that she was a distance from him and now she is back.
It seems like you obviously have your doubts and they are well-founded. I would judge for yourself but to me his story sounds highly dodgy. That isn't to say it isn't true though, follow your instincts they are probably right. Take care.
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