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writes:im in my twenties and have been with my partner for 4 years.he is in his thirties.iv always bee abit jeleous but am getting better.any way theres a woman he woks wiv that realy likes him.shes 50 she texts most days and trys to ring though he doesnt normally respond.hes very caring and honest and we have a good relationship and good relations. a few weeks ago i received a letter saying hes been cheating and if i dont throw him out its going to carry on.weve talked and talked and i genrally believe that its lies but im still struggling to move on.he works 9 to 5 and is always home on time.he has 1 day off that he norm spends with me.he hardly ever goes out.realy hes had not alot of oppertunity to cheat.iv been checking his phone and yesterday she rang him though only for a few minutes.he says hes cut her out his life though shes denyed writing the letter but he has to be polite about work.im going mad i think i cant stop worrying im losing weight and smoing.i want to beleive him but its hard.he says hed never cheat and id see straight through him if he had which is prob right.why would anyone do anything that horrible though.i got her number and texted her she says there just mates and she dont even fancy him apparantly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for replying.she kept asking him out and finally he sat her down and told her for the last time he wasnt intrested and never would be .a few days later we got the letter.hes depressed at the moment as a close relative of his died suddely then a week later i got the letter which was quite bad for them to do when he was grieving.you are right im pushing him away.iv always trusted him til now.his family said hed never do that to me hes very loving and a family man.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 December 2009):
Yes, she does fancy him. Has anything happened between them, I don't think so. I think it's very likely she sent the letter saying he had cheated, that's a female sort of thing to do (no disrespect, but I think men are more obvious about it all). I think he's made it clear to her nothing can happen, and I think you need to trust him, or you might scare him away. Trust him, and stop snooping too, or that might also scare him away.
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reader, YaTuSabes  +, writes (9 December 2009):
trust your man. and dont harm yourself over it. if he is cheating the truth will come out. do your part and stick by him unless that actually happens. people say stuf all the time, they are called :haters. ignore them and trust him. what is a relationship without trust?
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