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writes:Hey,What I'm going to ask is a little personal. But I'm wondering what really is an orgasim and if I've experienced one? Ive tried to research first to see if I have but I can never find what I've experiencedWhen I'm rubbing my clit, after a while I will get this really good feeling and then my body will stiffen but when I go to rub more my body will shake and jerk. Is this an orgasim? Me and my boyfriend have been dating for more than 3 years and we've just starting doing stuff but I've never orgasimed while doing stuff with him. Is there something wrong with me ? Well if this an orgasim how can I keep it up? And keep the feeling going? And how can I get my boyfriend to get me to orgasim?Please answer this so I can stop wondering what is going on and how I can make my sexlife better. Thank You !:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): its an orgasm if at the point of maximum pleasure it feels like the pleasure is occurring in waves or pulses and then suddenly is all over (or fades away rapidly) and you feel relaxed and content (not frustrated) and maybe also sleepy or lethargic.
why not show your bf how you do it and ask him to do the same to you?
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (2 April 2012):
 I strongly recommend that you Google "Clitoral", a website by women, for women, mainly about the female orgasm and ways to achieve it.
Or PM me.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (2 April 2012):
 What you have was clitoral orgasm. Some people argue that vaginal orgasm is dependent on clitoral orgasm but I don't think so. My ex fingered me and I get this feeling I wanted to pee and he said had I waited I would have squirted. So far I was only able to squirt a tiny bit during sex. You have to find your G spot. Massage it and feel the tension build up. There are positions that help with vaginal orgasm. You have to throw your legs up and aim for the deepest penetration possible.
It is all through experimenting and not too much thought goes into it. If your boyfriend could last long enough just to get you to experience one vaginal orgasm, you will find that in the future it will take less time to achieve one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): yes, it is orgasm what you get while doing yourself.
there are different ways to achieve one. try reading foreplay related topics. way, time taken, etc will depend on person. in case of women it is told that each woman is different. so tell your boy friend what you would like. I mean open communication.
generally coitus makes an orgasm. if not you guys can try for oral sex or fingering.
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reader, lovely_minx  +, writes (2 April 2012):
 You may be experiencing an orgasm if you feel immense pleasure from rubbing your clit, and yes you may shake as well. Most women do not have an orgasm from vaginal sex, unless the clit or g-spot is being stimulated. If you boyfriend is up for the long run, see if he will rub or lick your vagina on and around your clit, you should orgasm but it may take a while. Please be careful and always use protection! Good luck!
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