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Is this a polite way of brushing off what I said because he doesnt like me?

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Question - (11 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *verfall23 writes:

I'm kinda seeing this guy. I've known him for a while. And we've hung out about 4 times. We're very sexually expressive people, so thats happened a few times already. I tried to make a joke to him yet also tell him that I liked him as well. I wrote "I know we havent hung out that much but I kinda like you. Kinda haha". I wrote him that and he wrote back "haha". Is this a polite way of brushing off what I said because he doesnt like me? Or did he just act like a typical guy in "missing" the point?

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A male reader, owen321 United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2007):

just ask the guy straight if hes interested in you, you may feel stupid at the time, but it will either speed things up in terms of a relationship or save you wasting your time on him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007):

I have been in that situation so many times that its not funny anymore.

My best friend told me he liked me over sms. I replyed saying

pft kk buddy. All i wanted to say was i feel the same.

But the fact was i was so scared that he was joking.

you saying "kinda hahah" most prob put his confidence down.

you never know he might feel the same way, but the only way you will ever find that out is if you actualy tell him face to face how you feel. Mabye he will reject you, but hey you wont be regreting your whole life thinking

I WONDER WHAT IF ...

you dont want to live life like that .

take your chances and live life take risks be your self.

and you will find someone head over heals in love with you

love Antonia

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