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writes:Dear Cupid, I have never been inlove. Is there a such thing as love? And if so, is there a perfect man out there for me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): Yes, there certainly is. I think most people think/believe there is no such thing as love before they experience it themselves, you have to 'feel it, to believe it.
Remember, there is someone for everyone, but there is so many in the world, it can take a while to find them. Some find them when they're 14, some 40. But once you've experienced love for yourself you will definitely believe in it. I used to feel the same before I fell in love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): Love exists. Trust me. And I'm gonna tell you right now, Mr. Perfect and mr. Right are two very different people. Lets say you imagine mr. Perfect as smart, tall, handsome, successful, and nice. But mr. Right could be someone whose smart, ok looking, but with the best sense of humor you ever knew. Do you get what I'm saying here? Basically, the guy you end up with won't be perfect, but will be perfect for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): Yes there is, fortunately.
There is no such thing as a perfect man but there will be someone who is right for you. Possibly several.
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (16 June 2011):
Hi - I can gaurantee you there is such a thing as love - its a feeling you have when you stare into your partners eyes and see your own happiness looking back at you, its a smile on her face as she looks also, time slows down or speeds up, its hard to keep track of it and you feel at peace with her. I'm telling you there is no other feeling like it and when it hits you, you will know all about what love is.
Believe it will happen and just open yourself to its possibility.
I was never one to wax lyrical about silly stuff like love before, but it can hit you like a storm and change you forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): Love definitely exists, You just haven't met the right man yet, But when you meet him you will know :) It starts as attraction, lust and longing and then when you can't imagine your life without him in it, its then that you realize you are in love.
But beware there is no such thing as perfection and if your trying to find a man that ticks all the boxes your in for a long wait. Everybody has their faults and things will start to irritate you but you have to take people as you find them and if you feel yourself trying to change a man into something that you want, then thats not love, your just trying to mould your perfect man which will not make you happy. There is somebody out there for everybody i find that usually when you stop looking for love, it ends up finding you.. best of luck :)
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