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writes: Is there something wrong with not being attracted to a penis? For some odd reason, I can't watch heterosexual porn. I'm an 18 year old girl with a boyfriend, but I watch lesbian porn sometimes. Well, just today, I was watching something, and a scene popped up with a man and I freaked out and got completely turned off and turned the video off. It's like looking at a spider video for me (I hate spiders). Am I sick or something? I just can't look at it. Not only is it a turn off, but it freaks me out seeing a guy having sex with a girl. I don't normally have sex with my boyfriend, but on the rare occasions I do, I don't like looking at his penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): I don't think you are sick. Personally I don't think they are the most attractive part of someone's anatomy but they are pretty useful ! :-) I also find lesbian porn more enjoyable and I am straight. Trouble is often porn is quite aggressive by the male and women appear 'used' so that may be why? Maybe over time you will have a gradual acceptance of the way they look. I think it may have something to do with how you relate a penis to dominance or possibly even pain and that its a kind of symbol of something. However you will only make it worse if you analyse it too much - so maybe just come to terms with the fact of what you like and don't like - as long as you still enjoy sex yourself then relax.
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reader, VocalsAndRhythmGuitarist  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 I can't say it's normal, because I really don't know, I know girls that hate to touch it when it's all wet with the pre-cum or the girl's natural lube, but I've never met or heard of any girl that hates the sight of it. Nevertheless, I don't think you should be worried about it, as long as you please your boyfriend enough. If he is one of those guys (like me) that love getting head, or having a hand job then it'll probably be a problem. Just talk to your boyfriend and ask him if he minds that you have this problem. If he doesn't then you're good. Eventually, you might even get used to it and be comfortable enough to watch, or even please him even more with oral. ;) Good luck!
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reader, Symon  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 Dnt get to over concernd about it or youll fixate on it and it will spoil ur day to day things by playing like a record in ur head. Well i cant truthfuly say i understand but i mite be able to sympathise with what ur sayin u see belive it or not im a guy who aint to fond of a blow job i cant explaine it but am not i think u need to stop worrying about am sure it will all turn out for the best. X
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