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writes:Son has been with his girlfriend 2 years, had to go in hospital for a couple of days, my husband said give her his number so she can text him to see how hes getting on which she did then recently She sent our son a message on face book to say she as sent a message to my husands phone to thank him for a xmas gift. my husband said to tell her its of all of us. Myself or husband did not buy her the gift it was our daughter who bought her it and said his girlfriends mum buys our son a gift so it would be nice to get her something. I think it strange she message my husband when she could of just told our son. Why as she still got my husands number on her phone and why as my husband still got hers on his? He does go out of his way to be around her when she comes here and looks at her quite alot. Hes 49 shes 19. She is nice looking but hes old enough to be her dad. Is there something going on, which would be sick if there was.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (29 December 2015):
 Yes, the smiley faces are common, especially for teenage girls.
Again, OP, what you've described does not raise any alarms for me, nor anyone else here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2015): I am the person who posted the topic. She puts smiley faces on her messages my husband said its teenage stuff, is this true? And a while back our son was showing us pictures from his holiday with her and one was of her topless which we both saw and quickly gave the phone back so my husband as seen her this way. Yes I agree he will look at her if he finds her attractive which hurts me because im 45 and getting on but I just hope there is nothing to it
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2015): I have loads of numbers on my phone of people I've sent a text once to, such as my boyfriends friends when he's text them off my phone. I didn't just go and delete the number straight after.
If she had your husbands number and not anybody else's from your family and you all gave her a gift then it was nice of her to say thank you directly to your husband rather than your son doing it.
You are looking too far in to this.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 December 2015):
 I'm with Ciar.
I don't think anything odd is going on here either. She still has his number, he still has hers because MOST people don't delete added phone numbers. I have a bunch of numbers for my kids teachers from LAST year (which I really should delete, but haven't) And with her being your son's GF, there might come a time where it's good to have her number in case you/your husband can't reach him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2015): Maybe say to your husband how much you like your son's girlfriend and you hope your son strengthens his relationship and becomes more serious with her. What a lovely looking couple they are together. Check his response and reaction carefully.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (25 December 2015):
There's nothing in your post to suggest or prove that anything is going on between your husband and your son's girlfriend. Since she's still dating your son she might have thought it was a snub to remove your husband's cell phone number from her directory and vice versa.
By thanking your husband for the gift she's making sure you all actually get the message instead of relying on your son who might forget or just assume that everyone is appropriately grateful without having to say it. Also she's acknowledging that YOU all sent the gift and that it wasn't just from your son.
Your husband may look at her a little more often because she's attractive but I don't see anything here to raise alarm bells.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (25 December 2015):
This is a difficult feeling to have however there maybe nothing all all going on.In your own quiet way ask a few questions here and there and see what you come up with .The whole situation maybe quiet harmless-so dont jump-In a situation like this always make sure,Because otherwise it would cause a lot of demange.I know its hard to keep your cool but better to be sure then sorry.Kind wishes NORA B.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (25 December 2015):
This is a difficult feeling to have however there maybe nothing all all going on.In your own quiet way ask a few questions here and there and see what you come up with .The whole situation maybe quiet harmless-so dont jump-In a situation like this always make sure,Because otherwise it would cause a lot of demange.I know its hard to keep your cool but better to be sure then sorry.Kind wishes NORA B.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2015): I don't think anythings going on. Maybe she just wants to feel close to your family. If your husband is nicer to her than you then she'll naturally gravitate towards him.
But it sounds like you don't trust your husband. Tell him how you feel. See what he says. Only way to find out the truth.
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