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writes:I've recently read quite a lot of questions from women about faking orgasms so I was just wondering if there is anyway to tell if a girl is faking it? Especially physical signs, because I want to make sure I really please my girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for the help, i had a chat with her and shes assured me shes genuine and does orgasm and wen we had sex earlier, i looked out for the things u sed fishfood and i noticed like 4 of them and that was well helpful so thanks!!!
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reader, mcbirdie  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 In short, no. There is no physical way to prove that a woman is faking an orgasm. Every single response that a woman has when orgasming--and they can be different for each woman--including the clenching of vaginal muscles, can be controlled and done at will.
The best thing to do is talk to her. Don't accuse her of faking and don't put pressure on her TO have an orgasm (no fair telling her how you can't be satisfied unless she does, for example)--just have an open discussion with her about what she really enjoys and what she needs to come. Don't be surprised if she loves what you're already doing, but needs you to do it longer.
Talk to her openly and without pressure and you'll be much more likely to have a girlfriend who doesn't need to fake it with you.
Good luck.
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reader, fishfood +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Every orgasm is unique but there are 5 main things that physically happen although some of them are more difficult to spot, especially if u get “lost in the moment” :-).
1) The inner two thirds of the vagina swells and becomes darker and the clitoris becomes more erect.
2) Breasts are more sensitive to touch and nipples become erect.
3) The breathing rate will quicken as the body demands more oxygen.
4) pinking may appear in the cheeks, neck, and chest as blood pressure rises.
5) The orgasm will cause the muscles to contract and "throb" in the outer third of the vagina (they are stronger at the start and happen every few seconds)
But like I said, some are quite difficult to spot so if ur relationship is strong enough, maybe u could just talk to her for some reassurance that u do satisfy her or maybe ask her if there’s anything new she wants to try and that way she can tell u what to do to help her orgasm without her worrying about hurting ur feelings. Dont get upset or offended if she does tell u she doesnt orgasm as the majority of women dont.
Dont keep worrying about it or get hung up on it otherwise u may end up questioning her everytime u have sex. hope that helps x
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reader, flower girl +, writes (27 June 2007):
 I faked it right up until i actually did and my husband did not know any different, sometimes it takes a while for you to discover each others bodies so just go with the flow and enjoy it.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
 My guy recons he could tell if I was faking it by the way I tense up when I cum and parts of me throb and stuff so I suppose there is. He also thinks he could teel by my moaning..... I don't know if he could as I've never had to.
Ask your girlfriend if she feels that you completely satisfy her in bed.
I wouldn't put too much thought in to the faking bit though or you'll question yor girlfriend everytime you have sex!
xxxxxxx
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