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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Is there anything wrong in being a virgin at 24? In high school, I made out with a girl a bunch of times, but nothing happened. In college, I wanted to be with a girl. We made out quite a few times, but nothing happened. I chased after girls that didn't like me, and there were some girls that showed some interest in me (however, I didn't show interest in them...even though a few were cute). I moved back to my parents house after college, so I haven't done anything with a girl. I tried online dating, but that didn't work either. I mean I could ask a bunch of random girls out (let's say downtown, and it could work. But I'm not experienced in bed. True, I don't have STDs, but some girls told me before that they would prefer a man that's experienced. A part of me is worried. A part of me says that I'll be fine. But I don't know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): I WISH I found a guy who was a virgin at that age. Instead I have to live with it every single day that my husband has been with tons of other women. And trust me, it's not easy to forget about. Please, for the sake of some nice and wonderful girl you will eventually meet, do not just lose it juuust because. Please. It's an amazing thing and you should be so proud.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Being a virgin in one's 20s is quite common for both guys and girls. I know it seems like everyone else is doing it, but don't be fooled. That is because you only ever get to hear stories from people who have had sex and never from the other group - the virgins. Nobody goes around bragging about being a virgin. In fact, a lot of them keep it a secret. Don't worry, you are perfectly normal.
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 There are some horrible double standards in society, if a girl was a virgin at that age they'd be patting her back and congratualting her, however boys face a lot more pressure, there is nothing wrong with it, you just need to be with an understanding confident girl who isn't afraid to tell you what she likes :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): pffftt...vintage, sooo true! Dont stress poster, you are fine. And when it happens it comes pretty natural. Strongfp is right on the money. Theres nothing wrong with waiting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): I agree with Strongpf, date and when it happens it happens. Don't worry about women wanting experienced guys, in bed, guys tend to be fast learners, when it comes to sex.
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