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writes:I am a heterosexual female in a serious and loving relationship with a bisexual male. At the beginning of our relationship, he had told me that he's also capable of being attracted by men and has had two same-sex relationships in his life. The last of these ended twenty years ago. Most of his relationships had been with women. He has never been in love with more than one person at a time and he has never had casual sex with anyone. I accept his bisexuality as a part of his person and I don't doubt that he is capable of fidelity. What I'd like to know is if there's anything I can do to reassure him that I trust him and know that he truly loves me. You see, he loves me like life itself and I love him so much that I want to do all I can to make him feel really loved and accepted as he deserves. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, ChiRaven, for your timely response. What you say makes so much sense. My relationship with this man whom I love very much is wonderful and I will do everything I can to keep it that way.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (6 April 2007):
 I assume you've told him that.
Keep your lines of communication open wide. Keep letting him know that you appreciate him for the fine partner he is to you. And sooner or later, your constancy will give him an unambiguous message that you really mean it.
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