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writes:I met that guy, he was so sweet and nice I likes him alot, then he was never there, we go out he dances with every girl but me, I used to get mad everytime, and he calls me and be sorry and promise he's gonna change, but he never did.. I had to break up with him, for the way he acts, and it was so ok with him us being just friends.. I still love him alot, and I have to act like I'm just a friend, it's breaking up my heart everytime I see him with another girl, and I miss him alot... what should I do?? should I get over it?? and will I ever do?? is there anyway to help me get rid of that pain??
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 April 2010):
 How well I know the process described:
"I still help him and be there for him everytime he needs me, is that wrong?"
It only prolongs the pain. Not wrong, but you'll understand someday that some things must end.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 April 2010):
How well I know the process described:
"I still help him and be there for him everytime he needs me, is that wrong?"
It only prolongs the pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): Is keeping him as a friend making the breakup harder on you?
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reader, nosha +, writes (14 April 2010):
nosha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for all the answers. I guess I'ma have to keep trying..and yes, stop playing the our songs. But should keep being just afriend with him, or what?? I mean I still help him and be there for him everytime he needs me, is that wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): whenever you see him with another girl just be glad that your not the girl that is with him cause he is going to hurt them just the way he hurt you!! dont go back just keep going forward and as time goes on you will realise you have made the right decision! time is a healer.. time will help you get over him..:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): I know it doesn't feel like it now, but the pain will go. Try not to sit thinking about him, playing songs that remind you of him etc.
Try and keep busy, organise some fun things to do with your girl friends. Before you know where you are, it will be ages before you have even thought of him.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 You are not his priority but only an option. Since he does not know how to love,appreciate and cherish you , you should not give him all your love.
You are only casting your pearls before swines.
Find another great guy and you will forget the pain.Look carefully before you leap .
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 April 2010):
Just the wrong guy. Move on and forget him. The pain will go away when you find a better guy. It will happen.
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