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writes:i fell in love last year when i was on holiday and i was going out with this lad i met, for two month it was a long distance relationship and it was going well till he stoped replying to my txts and phonecalls. one year later i am still not over him and cant move on without him i have tried my hardest to let go but cant do it. he txt me at the start of the year asking for his top back he gave me and after that he hasnt bother then he phoned to get in touch with me not so long agobut i was on holiday and couldnt accept the call. i am wondering if he still thinks of me and would ever want me back i am considering on going to the place he lives to see if he would give it another go, the thing is my mom and his mom met briefly on the phone when i was visiting him last year and his mom said to mine that they thought he was gay because he hadnt shown any intrest with girls and hasnt took none home i am just woundering what is best to do i still love him soo much and i think he is worth it i just dont know if i am been stupid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): hi hunnyim sorry but it doesnt sound like he feels as strongly for you as you do for him. long distance relationships are hard and you have 2 make sacrafices but he doesnt seem to want to. please dont let him be the one who says when you're on and off because that isnt a real relationships. relationships are always a two way street thing and it has to be on both of the partners terms. what i would do if i was in your situation is just to call him up and discuss how your feeling, whether he feels the same way and what you both want to do in the future. people don't just stop answering txts and phonecalls without a reason hunny. it sounds like he's moved on but jst to be on the safe side, call him and find out where you stand so you know whether you can move on with your love life. hope iv helped in some sort of way. if you wanna talk more just send me an email hun good luck xxx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Talk to him about it. He can't just suddenly stop contact and then only get in contact when he wants.
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