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writes: Hey im a 17 year old girl and I need some advice so heres my story...Six months ago I met the guy of my dreams hes great and hes all I've ever wanted after about 2 and a half months just being friends and flirting we finally decided to get together. We were in a relationship for nearly three months until one day he just ended it and his reason was that it just did not feel right as upset as I was I knew it was his decision and I wouldnt be able to change his mind. I see him around alot now and recently he has been trying to start an argument with me just for the sheer hell of it (he thinks its funny)I was really angry with him for a while and kept telling myself that I hated him but after I had calmed down I realised I dont hate him and I probably never will I wish I did though as things would then be so much easier. I still love him so much that it hurts its been 3 weeks since we split up and I know thats not long so I'm bound to feel like this but I just want him back I love him so much and I've never felt like this before its starting to scare me. I just wish he loved me. Can someone please give me some advice as I dont know what to do should I cling on to the fact that there might be a chance he may fall in love with me someday or should I do my best to forget him? Thanks for reading. x
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reader, lonly_in_rc +, writes (16 February 2006):
x- i know what your going through by first hand expeience. yea i have had a female that played the games with me too. i heard all kind of excuses as to why and how but my advice to you is to not allow yourself to get the abuse and humiliation that may follow with the arguements and all else that may occur. i know its ahrd to let go of someone you truly care about and how happy you would be to have it all back but you need to be sure that if there is a reconciliation he is on the same page as yourself. for the time being use the old saying as a motto "if you love it let it go" and occupy your time with friends and hobbies to move forward in life. there is always the chance someone better may yet come along. -lonely
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2006): I would say do your best to forget him - he sounds immature and like he doesn't know what he wants.Move on and meet new people. Leave him alone to sort out his head.He may come back to you one day but worry about that if or when the day comes. For the moment just forget him and meet someone else who recognises that you are too special to let go of! I think you deserve that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2006): Will I think you should try to show him how much you love him. Go to him and just tell him straight up .Tell him how you feel,and just ask him if he wants to get back together.Your story is kinda like mine trust me if this dont work he's and idiot.
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