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female
age
30-35,
*aursona
writes:seriously does this 'love mystery' gives me an indication that he loves me or something else? or is just like i am putting much pressure on thinking...it started with my school days, he was in my school and we both were in same grade but different classrooms, another thing common between us was that we lived in same locality, and we were in school bus. in school days i used to notice that he always used to stare me in school, bus, locality etc... etc... i never bothered about this but i got habitual with his behavior and i fell in love with him.i always wanted to know why he used to stared me but i never got this its answer.today i am at my college level. which i couldn't do in school days i did it now. i approached him and made friendship with him thinking that someday i would get to know why he used to stare me, and later on i will propose him and yes i proposed him and he said no which broke my heart, but i didn't get the answer of my 1st question which was 'why he used to star me' as i never got a chance to ask him about this because before i could ask this everything got twisted and still makes me think that there is something from his side;1- when we newly got together at our first chat he asked me out, and i was shocked but happy also.2- i used to daily visit his orkut profile looking for any unusual chat between him and others, but there was nothing like that, and he always used to say truth about him because i knew how he was as his little sister was my friend.3-i asked him with confident that does he remember me, but he said no, he never saw which was absolute shock for me, and on which i kept thinking that then why he used to star me in school days. then i thought its fine maybe because 2 years gap he is not able to recognize me.4- the day when we had our personal meet, i asked him that he ever had date before with any unknown girl, and he said NO!! which was unusual answer for me,. because as told before he said that he didn't know me nor he saw me in school, so that means m stranger to him then why he asked me out and that to at our first chat. and even though he is lying that he don't know me, and knows that i was in same school as he was then why he only asked me out and not other girls who were there in his profile in same school.5- his two friends also added me in their profile, but they never added his other friends in their profile than why me.6- one night we chat through sms and on next day his friend came online and repeated all those sms to me, which means he shared our chat with his friend.7- his same friend, one day asked me about do i have a boyfriend and i answered him that no but i love someone who was in my school, and all of sudden he took 'my crush name' whom i love. i was again shocked, i tried to cut the topic and told him that there are other boys also but he was saying my crush name with confident; at that period i didn't even proposed my crush, nor i gave him or his friend a chance to doubt that i love him. but still he guessed right..........these are all the happenings which took place when we were newly got into friendship, and after all this i proposed him and he said no, but still these questions makes me think that there is something from his side and it cant be just my silly thinking.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 Hi,
There is nothing from his side....it's your mind being overly analytical and silly.
You are reading way too much into all these occurences, and it will drive you crazy if you don't stop.
Get a hold of yourself and move on.
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