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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My gf and i have been dating for a year and a half now.We only see each other weekends bcoz i work and she also recently started working and she has a 2year old child to attend to,which i have no problem with.The thing is we usually see each other friday nights and Saturday afternoon till late night and sometimes a sunday afternoon. But there are times when cant see each other for whatever reason,and that doesnt seem to bother her that we not gonna see each other,shes just like "oh ok then". During the week aswell,i sometimes send her goodmorning text messages or just "i love u" texts,she doesnt reply or phone me the whole day until i text her the evening again to find out "where are u then 2day",then she only replies.But we usually instant message chat for an hour before we go sleep.On the other hand,there are times when she texts me "i miss u" or "i luv u" texts,or she phones me from work to chat or to tell me to listen to the radio bcoz her song or our song is playing.And some evenings she texts me to ask where am i,bcoz she wants to IM chat with me, and some friday evenings she phones me directly after work to ask where i am,what time am i coming around to her. I luv her alot,nd she has told me numerous times she luvs me and i must never leave her. I wanna know is there a problem with us or am i just over analyzing things,or is she just a typical woman and we dnt understand them. Plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): I agree, she sounds very busy and is probably only able to contact you if she has a spare minute.I am a little offended by your 'typical woman' comment, and suggest you stop stereotyping. Most of us are actually pretty easy to understand if you take the time to ask and listen.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (5 December 2009):
 Two year old children are high maintenance. And if she has a paid job as well your girlfriend has a fairly busy, and probably tiring, life.
You ask if she is a typical woman, I would suggest she may be a typical mum, and for most mothers mornings are usually pretty hectic without having to respond to texts as well.
As her child gets older her time will slowly free up, and she will have more time available for the things she (and most of us) would prefer to be doing.
She tells you she loves you, and I think in this situation you need to accept that at face value.
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