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writes:My BF of over 3 years had really ramped up the affection recently. He's not the type to talk about feelings AT ALL. He's a very rational and confident person. Last few weeks though he has been so affectionate that it's thrown me! He's almost become slightly needy telling me he loves me multiple times a day. I'm not giving out I'm just wondering is there a reason?! I've become a lot busier with work and he's winding down before xmas is the only thing I can see... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2015): some guys get extra nice to the wife when they have an affair so you could always bring things back to normality by asking him if thats why he is being so nice to you as it will almost certainly result in an angry and hurt argument about your lack of trust.If he seems a little flattered at the concept and takes the opportunity to ask you "And what is wrong with me being in love with my wife?"well maybe then you can assume that he has heard rumours that you are having an affair with the milkman and how you sort this one out is up to you.It certainly gives you the chance to inject a little more romance into the relationship.If he is not doing his job in the bedroom you can always get him to the doctor to see if he is suitable for viagra and this should give you some midnight hours to sort things out so to speak.
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (18 December 2015):
He should be telling you multiple times a day that he loves you. That's not unusual in a relationships. Are you responding in kind? If not, try it and see what happens.
Honestly, we don't have that much practice in answering this type of question. Usually it is just the opposite. This is a nice change. Let yourself enjoy his affection.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 December 2015):
 Maybe he needs to be told back how much you love him. If he is being needy or clingy and he has never been like this in the three years, well then maybe you should talk to him about the sudden changes.
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