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male
age
30-35,
*londyking
writes:So there's this girl (isn't there always?) in my class that was being ever-increasingly nice to me over the last few months, saying she liked my clothes, being funny, joking, etc. Eventually I ran into her at a coffee shop to study for an AP exam and we agreed to go to a movie. After the movie, we got some food, talked about random stuff, friendly chatter and had some fun, listened to music in my car on the way back, etc. Later that week I went to lunch with her and ended up meeting her parents. We talked about headed into the city to have some fun (where I was hoping I could tell her that I do really like her) but those plans ended up falling through. After that, the friendliness kept going, but the last time I tried to hang out with her (this past week) she told me she was busy, I actually ended up running into her with a friend of mine at a coffee shop and she said hi and all, but I felt brushed aside. I ended up running into her again and she explained that the thing she had to go to was earlier than she expected, I understood, but still felt weird about it. Then this week, we traded CD's we burned for each-other because we talked about doing that when we went to the movie, so it feels like its been on and off signs of interest.Granted, it is the end of the year and people tend to get busy with things. I guess I'm asking if anyone thinks that there is actually an opportunity with this girl or if she's just pushing me aside. Reply to this Question
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reader, Blondyking +, writes (8 June 2012):
Blondyking is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe was in fact with a female friend. Thank you for your advice.
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reader, golddigger99 +, writes (8 June 2012):
 Well, one important detail that you left out was whether or not her "friend" that you saw her with was a male or a female....But, let me be clear, I don't know any females, including myself, that would hang out with a male if she wasn't interested. Has it been a long time since she's been hanging out with you? If so, and her "friend" was a male could be a sign that she WAS interested but you took to long to notice and she's moved on. But, if her friend is a "female" it might be possible that she's still interested but doesn't think you are. lol! Guys can be the SLOWEST creatures on this planet, even slower than snails!My best advise to you would be to simply ask her out on a date. It sounds like she was, or is still interested in you. Use that to your advantage and good luck!
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