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writes:Hey,well this may sound silly but i fee a little confused here. i'm friends with a girl called Kim and we've been talking and lately we've been getting on really well, she has a boyfriend. however the other the night when she was going an were saying bye said to me lv u and i said u2 and a few days i asked her for her number and she said sure and gave it me straight away and she's got mine 2, and were getting on reeli well an stuff and b4 i asked her how her relationship was going with her bf and she said it's fine and said nothing else about it.i was just wondering if maybe i'm getting the wrong end of the stick or something. or is she she trying to say something??Thanxs
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reader, miss_luvbug +, writes (3 December 2006):
It may be tempting but i would definately keep my distance from her. If shes giving out her number and telling guys she loves them when she has a boyfriend than thats the way she is. You dont want her to do it to you too if you guys ever ended up dating. Take this from personal experience, whwn i had a boyfriend and i started acting like that with other guys and we got close i got urges to cheat, and once you start cheating it is a very hard habit to break. Took me over a year to stop completely. I suggest staying far from her, especially if she is claiming her relaionship is "fine" yet ttelling you she loves you. She may be one of the girls who wants every guy to herself. Goodluck and I hope you make the right decision :D
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (3 December 2006):
 Well she either just sees you as a good friend (women do tell their good friends "luv", and it does not mean anything more than friendship)...or she wants to cheat on her boyfriend.
The only way to know is to make a move on her...my guess is that she only sees you as a friend, as there was nothing there to indicate she is attracted to you yet.
If you make a move on her, you risk the friendship...are you willing to risk it?
-Frank B Kermit
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