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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I'm not sure if my friend is trying to set me up with this guy or not, lol, although she said she isnt, and i'm not sure how to respond to this email she sent to me today. She said " I will let you know about going to the cinema, i am seeing my boyfriend at the weekend and not sure if i am going this friday or saturday ( i said i could meet her and this guy on friday ) , but ( this guy's name ) keeps asking me about you and would love to go the cinema with you, (then she wrote his email address ) , not trying to set you up lol, just thought you could chat to him lol ".I'd like to email him, but i'm not sure what to say. I'm also wondering why he keeps asking about me, as we haven't met yet. We have mentioned going to the cinema as the three of us for a while now, but we havent been yet. Even if she was trying to set me up, she would probably say she wasn't because she would feel embarrassed saying she is, or maybe she, and this guy, just want to go with the flow, which i do too, as i dont even know what he is like yet. What do you think i should say to him, and how should i respond to my friend's message ?. Lol i must admit, i laughed when i read the part about her not trying to set me up xD. I'd like to see what happens though, as i am single. I'm 26 and he is 32. She mentioned his age to me in another message, and she said he is a nice guy, and she has said quite a few times that he really wants to meet me. Reply to this Question
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reader, misspurple +, writes (15 August 2010):
I think she is trying to set you two up but in a good way. This guy is probably thinking the same as you. Shes probably told him lots about you and he has liked what she has said so is wanting to meet up. Tell her that you will meet up with him only if she is there because i am sure you wouldn't want to meet him on your own and to avoid this is to meet her first at her house.If you want to email him first just ask him what his interests and hobbies are etc to break the ice and find common ground :)
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