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writes: Hoping people can give me a bit of a hand here. I broke up with a guy at the end of August. I was feeling bad about it for a bit but am much better now and am dating again and having fun. He has a new girlfriend. I have seen them together and I have heard she is really nice. When a bit more time has passed I will approach him and have him introduce her. The problem or the question involves a friend of mine. I was going to a function last night and when I got in I found I had a phone message from this friend letting me know that some of this girls friends were there. As soon as I got in the door this friend took me aside again and let me know that he was there with his new girlfriend. I said that was great. I did see them and nodded hello. Afterwards when we went out for drinks she came up to me again and let me know that friends of this girl would be coming with us and to be careful about what I said. This girl seems to be more concerned about my relationship with this guy than I ever was. What gives? Is she just trying to do the right thing or might there be something else I might not know about. It is always hard to see something when it is in your life...sometimes others can see it better. Any replies appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone. It is good for us all who have friends who look out for us. Thank you for helping me to appreciate this person.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (23 November 2008):
I think your friend didn't want you to say anything negative about this guy in front of his new girlfriend or her friends. Just wanting you to know who is who. Just being a friend.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (22 November 2008):
Yeah, sounds like she is being helpful so you don't get hurt and is nervous for you. At least that's what it sounds like in your description.
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