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22-25,
*r coder
writes:First I would like to give a little background on the situation (please bear with it as it is going to be long). Me and this girl in my class have been talking for a month and i liked her.A few days ago we decided to go for a movie on this sunday. In the next couple of days i felt that it would be best if i told her i liked her as i thought that she was losing interest. She had also shown some signs that she liked me. So that night i called her and told her how i felt. She said "I dont know what to say" and we both were kind of laughing. Neither of us then mentioned about the movie as the situation had completely changed. Sunday night we were talking on phone and i asked her to clearly tell an answer. She said " i like you too, but i just ended a long relationship so...". After that we didnt talk that much. Today she messaged me and i qoute our conversation below...Me-so what are your plans today?She-Was just thinking whom should i meet today.Dont wanna stay at home.Me-Not that hard. You can meet me.She-Haha...Me-List of people looks long.She-ok so you will come?Me-yup i am freeShe-Place?Me-Somewhere good. Lets do something interesting.She-ok see you in the evening.Me-message me your timings.i will think of some place.She-ok tell me when you have decided.After the conversation i waited till evening to tell me her timings, then dropped her a message but she didint reply. At around 8 pm she called me and when i asked her about her plan she said that she had fallen asleep in the afternoon and when she woke up it was quite late(she lives a little far off). I dont find the explanation satisfactory and now i dont know what she wants next. She might be trying not to go out with me or is she not interested in me? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 November 2016):
 It sounds to me like she is enjoying the attention that you are giving her. She is just out off a relationship so she probably wants time to get over that, but also you are a clear distraction for her. Don't allow yourself to get hurt.
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reader, N91  +, writes (25 November 2016):
 Not interested.
You told her that you like her and she said she doesn't want a relationship so it's not going anywhere. Block her and move on.
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