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*urious2345
writes: Hello All,I have been in an almost two-year relationship with a married woman. Things are wonderful when we are together and that is 5-10 times a month and we talk every day. She is 16 years younger than her husband and tells me they have nothing in common. She tells me she needs a little more time but she is going to leave him. All the paperwork is completed, it just needs to be filed. Her girlfriends tell me the same that she thinks of me as her soulmate and that i am the best thing in her life and that she is going to leave him. Well we have gone on many and have several trips planned (one exotic) in the coming months but i am getting to wits end. Question is do I cancel all future trips/plans or stick it out for a bit longer?
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reader, Curious2345 +, writes (9 March 2010):
Curious2345 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to thank you ladies for your response. I did in fact set a date and if that date comes and goes so does she. It will be difficult but it is the right thing to do.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (6 March 2010):
Set a deadline and be prepared to walk away if it's not met. It's been two years already. If she's in love with you and has nothing in common with her husband, there's no reason for the divorce not to be started by now. She can only string you along if you let her.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (6 March 2010):
If she really loves you she will leave him. If you are ok with sharing the woman you love then carry on but if you want more you need to express to this women how you feel and be prepared for what will happen..
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