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writes:I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 8 months. She has been in a marriage separation for 4 months. Yes, we were dating before she separtated. She was in an abusive relationship. There are children involved and that makes it complicated. She says that she wants to be with me long-term. However, he is using the children against her emotionally, threatening to leave them forever. She has told me that sometimes she is torn by this. She said she doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't want him to leave the children forever. Sometimes she gets so stressed about everything that we miss making love for a couple of days. She told me one time that she needed to talk to a 3rd party about all of this. She said there was part of it that she couldn't talk to me about. She said she didn't want to be judged. Does that mean that she has been having sex with him sometimes to keep him from leaving for good? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): wow your situation sure is difficult to try n predict if shes having sex with her ex. well i can say is talk to her and tell her that no matter wat your going to be there for her. U too are in love and she was abused so she mite be scared of him or he might be threatening with something else. she shouldnt worry about him leaving the kids for ever because hes the one whos going to be missing out on them growing up not her. im a single mom and my babys dad decided to not help so he dont have no communication with my son and that doesnt bother me because hes a bad influence jus lik your gf's babys dad. just really talk to her
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