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writes:I met an amazing girl but last week we hit a bump in the road she has a guy freind who has a girl but they are going to a new years eve wedding together and I'm ok with that I knew that when met they went dress shopping together before hand I told her I had no problem going and she said no I asked her why she said I don't let my bfs meet my guy friends right away but it has troubled me I'm starting to wonder if She maybe is seeing this guy behind my back I really like this girl but I'm one of those people when I get a feeling I'm usually right what do I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2011): I would say that maybe it is simply the point that in the past she has let a boyfriend meet her guy friends and they have dumped her out of jealousy and maybe simply because they don't believe guys and girls can be friends without it being something more to it. If you haven't been together that long, i would say that she is simply being cautious. Tell her that it seems a strange to you, and see what she says, maybe she can explain her meaning better.
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (20 December 2011):
 Totally feel your frustration man.
So if I understood correctly, the girl your interested in is going dress shopping together with a guy friend who has a girlfriend of his own.
Sometimes girls do have very close male friends, its not uncommon. My roommates girlfriend is just like that. She has two of them actually. And since this male friend does have a girlfriend I wouldn't be too worried about it.
Be cautious, for sure, but don't jump to conclusions just yet.
Also, do try to verify if this guy friend is in a relationship though, because there is no such thing as a straight guy who wants to be "just friends" with a girl.
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