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writes:i have long distance relationship with 22 years old Ukrainian girl , we chat every week when i have my weekend. and we liked each other, and we planned for our meeting and she asked me to make her mother quicklysuddenly, she disappeared from 19 April and back again at 6 Maybefore she go at 19 April she left a message to me :-----------I came to you with special news! I'll have to leave the chat for a while, but I'll be back. I now have life circumstances so that tomorrow my future fate will be decided and my life will depend on it. I can tell you at the moment that my dream can come true. but for this to come true, I cannot yet say what it will be. sorry. you are very dear to me and a close person, please keep your fists for methank you dear, I love you and kiss you----------i chat with her at 8 May, and i was joking that i thought she was give birth while her disappearing , but she told me that she got a job (beside her studying) and she will give birth. i thought that she is joking so i asked her how is the father. she told me that she met him for short time and he is not Ukrainian and she is 5 weeks now. we ended the chat because Kyiv started shelling .next morning, i told her that i hope that she was joking . she replied me "God. I want to have a baby for you" . i asked her if she pregnant now or not, she said no, so i asked her to swear that she is not pregnant , but she replied that she is pregnant.i had argument with her because she didn't wait our meeting .I don't know if she is pregnant really or she was testing me? and what i must do if she is pregnant in real?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2023): You are not in a relationship - this person is a stranger to you. She does not love you. You cannot love someone you have not met and do not know. She is leading you on with words of love to get what she wants, money I presume.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 May 2023):
 Pregnancy or not aside...
Do you really see the two of you having a future together?
She is 22, and you are in your mid 30's. Do you only know her over chat? So you have never met in person?
Now to the pregnant/not pregnant.
She says she is but she isn't, I get why you are confused. But why would someone say I'm 5 weeks and the father is not Ukrainian if she ISN'T pregnant?
I think you are just better off looking for someone closer to home if you are looking for a partner. I think this LDR is a fantasy role-play or a scam from her end.
Have you sent her money? If you have then a scam might be more likely.
Also if someone wants you to knock them up real fast and you don't really know them... maybe you need to take a bit of time to really re-think all this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2023): I seriously think you are about to be scammed.
It all sounds complete bulls**t.
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