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writes:I have a feeling this shy girl I like in high school likes me back but I'm a bit confused. Here are some things she does:1. I catch her looking at me but she will quickly look away if I look her way.2. If I say hi to her she will wither ignore me, smile at me or say hi back shyly. I notice that her voice cracks sometimes.3 Whenever I talk to her she smiles and laughs but doesn't make any attempt to prolong the convo. She never asks me any questions. I do almost all the talking.4. Sometimes when I meet her unexpectedly she will freeze up and make this awkward eye contact for a few seconds, say sorry and then walk away.5. I sent a friend request on Facebook but she rejected.6. If I pass by her and she thinks I can't see her, she will smile at me.7. She makes long eye contact with me from across a hallway or room.8. In the canteen she will always sit so she has a good view of me but she will avoid sitting close to me.9. I notice her friends pay more attention to me than other guys.10. Once I picked up books that she dropped for her and she couldn't look me in the eyes when I gave them back to her.11. She laughs at crappy jokes I makeMy gut feeling tells me she likes me but I'm not sure. I really want to tell her how i feel because there's not much time left until we graduate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): Go for it. Ask her out!!
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reader, hmm152  +, writes (31 May 2010):
I'd say she definitely likes you and is just really shy, but that's probably a reflection of just how much she likes you. A bit strange that she rejected your facebook request though? Perhaps say jokingly, 'hey, thanks for rejecting my friend request' and pull a sad face, yet laugh it off so she doesn't feel put under pressure and so that you don't look desperate or too bothered. Hopefully she'll become a bit more relaxed around you and things will be able to progress. Good luck!
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 she definitely likes you
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reader, Sagittarius1 +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Hey, it sounds to me like your right that she is interested but if she is shy then she is not going to take the first step and tell you not unless a miracle happens. If you feel you have nothing to lose then go for it life is too short and if you do graduate soon then its now or never . . Best of luck let us know how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): She sure likes you but is too shy to say!!!
You need to initiate a conversation though, even if just to find out if she is single.
All of the signs you listed point to a shy girl so don't tell her you have noticed her watching, it will make her feel self concious!
Just a simple line like "Hey we always seem to be in the same place don't we?" should do the trick.
Be calm and slightly confident and you should be okay.
the best of luck to you.
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reader, Jayce +, writes (30 May 2010):
You got nothing to lose so why not just tell her how you feel? i mean if shes shy atmosphere will play a huge part in succeeding but maybe do it somewhere where not many other people if any can witness :)... Best of luck
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