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*vermyhead123
writes:So I met this girl online a few months ago and we talked for a bit and I got her number. We made plans twice, (once in late may and another in early june) but they failed to go through because she never got back to me like she said she would. So I decided to give her a call back on jul 3, and she called back and I told her we needed to hang out and she suggested that night. I wasn't able to so I told her I could pick her up the next day and she said yes. I picked her up and took her to the beach along with 2 of my friends and we spent the whole day together and watched fireworks and had a lot of fun. The date went really well, she says it was "one of those days you remember." My friend asked her if she was having fun with me when they were alone and she said "oh yeahh" I also gave her a bracelet I made that was on my arm (she promised she wouldn't take it off) and let her wear my sweatshirt which she still has. I was very nervous so I didn't kiss her when I walked her to her door. It somewhat seemed like she wanted to, but I was too shy. So I did not call her that night or the day after. I called Tuesday around 6, she did not answer but sent me a txt, "hey I'm on my way to church what's up?" I replied "hey that's cool just wanted to say what's up give me a call when u get home" she never called. So I waited a day or two and I called her again, this time she picked up. We only talked for a couple mins but I asked her if she would like to go bowling with me on sat, she said she wasn't able to so I asked for sunday, she said she was down, but didn't give me a 100% yes, said she would get back to me. So she said she was going to do the dishes and would call me back. She never called back. So I wait a couple days and call her on fri, no answer, but I get a purse dial. I txt her and we txt back and forth for awhile, but she stopped txting after a bit. So I didn't hear from her on sat so I called her around 10am sun to see what was going on for the day (bowling or not?) She didn't answer nor did she return my call. So I didn't talk to her all week but I called this Friday around 11:50pm and it rang twice and went to voicemail (assuming she ignored the call) So my question is, does she have any interest in me or not? Is she just flaky, busy, or does she think I'm uninterested because I did not kiss her? She answers and txts me back, it's like she gives a little and then takes. Is this a form of playing hard-to-get? I am 17 and she is 19. Should I try calling her again today or should I leave her alone? She's really cool and I would like to see her again and get to know her better.
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reader, overmyhead123 +, writes (17 July 2010):
overmyhead123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you sexlessintheuk :) You're probably right, but thanks for the compliment!Damagedone: I waited about a week before I called her again and I never heard from her. I think that tactic does work but only if you're in a little deeper than I. Thank you for your inputI did call her this am around 12 and it rang 4 times and went to voicemail. Seems like she's ignoring me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Leave her alone.. For some reason girls seem to want when they feel unwanted (my ex is like that) if you stop calling/texting all together then she will feel some kind of urge to talk to you. Give her space and let HER call/text you first. Works everytime. Sad how showing NO interest in someone makes them want you.
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reader, damagedone +, writes (17 July 2010):
Leave her alone.. For some reason girls seem to want when they feel unwanted (my ex is like that) if you stop calling/texting all together then she will feel some kind of urge to talk to you. Give her space and let HER call/text you first. Works everytime. Sad how showing NO interest in someone makes them want you.
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