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writes: She dumped me because allthough she feels very nice with me she cannot continue to have sexual relationship because I am married but on the other cannot see me only as a friend anymore because we had sex and she never really loved me anyway.We have met a couple of times since and she gives the impression that she is not happy with the separation.A few days ago I found out that she started emailing a guy (he is married and lives in the other side of the world and they did not have any contact whatsoever for many many years) and without even being asked she wrote to him all the details of our relationship stating that allthough she feels 'flatered' having someone to really love her and despite being 'over the moon' with all the things we did together,she never loved me but she was in love with this guy allthough he was not in love with her.Does it make any sense or she is completely nuts? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (20 September 2006):
 The whole situation is nuts. If you are married,then you should not be playing away. She seems to have an obsession with married men which is not healthy at all. Leave her, she ended it, be glad that you have got out of it now and move on, I mean, dont you have a wife to go to?? Why should this "other" woman be consuming your time and energy, be faithful from now on, thats my advice. xXx
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reader, camille +, writes (20 September 2006):
 Erm, you're married so why do you care? You need to decide what you're going to do at home, whether to stay or go, regardless of this woman.
I am confused as to which part of this bothers you the most. That she broke it off with you? That she never loved you? That she's moved on to someone else? That she's talking about you?
Whatever, if she's talking to married men, maybe she is nuts to embark on the same mistake again, but it's not your problem anymore. I don't think you should meet up again, just walk away and sort your own life out.
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