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writes:Is sex with my wife once or twice a week to much to ask? We used to have sex 4 or 5 times a a day then we got married and she just stopped wanting me and I don't understand what I did or if I don't look good anymore. We have only been married for a year and a half and now we only have sex twice a month at the most. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): people lower amount of sex, aunt sal, for various reasons:tiredness, new baby, habituaion....
To answer your question, 1 or 2 times a week it's not that much, twice a months is o.k. also, it depends what you guys agree on. Some people have it once a month, and happy w/it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): Huh, she's caught you and she doesn't have to bother any more!
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 The hard answer is, "get used to it."
You're a bit young and early into the relationship for twice-a-month to be usual. That's more what I'd expect for 10 years on. So you do need to talk. The 4 times a day thing is great, it's wonderful, but it certainly doesn't last long, for anyone. But a marriage of less than two years -- you've got a huge red flag waving there, particularly since you're not happy. Talk, man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): OMG..why is it that when most people get married they tend to lower the amount of times they have sex, i've always wondered this...its wrong, your married, you love eachother you should be bonking every chance ya get, its one of the ways of expressing your love for each other,ofcourse its not wrong to want sex from your wife its brilliant, at least your wanting sex with your wife and not with someone else..You need to make her feel like sex, your married you should know the things that turn her on, get her into the mood, if shes stressd out or something start by giving her a nice massage then surrounding her with kisses, tell her how much you love her, that shud work!!Anyways best of luck :-D
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