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writes:dear cupidNow I think it is time to brake up with my boyfriend but I don't known if I should. On one hand I really love him and it is going to brake my heart breaking up with him but on the anther hand I don't think our relationship is going to last as In a few moth time I will be looking for work and he will be going back to collage and we wont have time for each other. We barely see each other out of collage as it is and we been going out for a month. We have not even been on a date, and we haven't kissed yet I don't know what I should do. Can you help? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 May 2016):
 He is your boyfriend yet you have never kissed or even been on a date? Sweetie you might feel like you will be heartbroken, but I think the idea of being in a relationship is what you think you will miss. How do you know you love him if you have both not even been on a date yet? Have you been friends a long time? Maybe the best thing to do is remain friends with him and find someone else who you have passion with.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (18 May 2016):
I think you are in love with the idea of being in love. You know what a relationship is and how it should be, and feel. This is not...so technically you will be heart broken over what exactly?
If it's not right, does not feel right, and will be right any time soon...then the right thing to do is?
Yes the pain of breaking up is always hard. But how much harder would be trying to hold on...for years.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (18 May 2016):
 You tell us you haven't kissed or been on a date. It sounds like you are close friends and not lovers. I think your friendship can survive if you want it to. Why don't you talk it over with him and see how he feels? It seems a bit cruel to take this decision on your own if you are both enjoying things the way they are at present.
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