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Is now the right time and am I the right age to have sex?

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Question - (24 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2011)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am 19 and i have a bf. He's also 19 and I am stil a virgin.

We have been dating for 6months nd we love each other very much. Whenever i go 2 his house we only kiss nd hold each other.Recently,he told me he would like too have sex with me.

My question is_

1. Am i ok too have sex at my age?

2. Is it reasonable for me too have sex with my bf within 6 months of our relationship.

I am really bothered about this. I hope to get an answer to my question this time around.thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011):

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Thank u all! Really apprecite ur responses to my question.am a litle bit religious nd i tink that why am unsure about havin sex now.i also tink i would wait til when no one tells me to have sex.nd i guess that shld b d right time.God bless u all.luv u.

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (24 July 2011):

VSAddict agony auntIt's ok to have sex at your age. There is no certain time frame to have sex with someone. But if you have to ask, then you are not ready, so wait until you feel ready and you don't feel you need to ask someone.

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A female reader, MissTellAll United States +, writes (24 July 2011):

MissTellAll agony auntOnly you know when it is the right time to have sex. If you think you are ready to have sex then go for it, but judging by your hesitance I'd say maybe wait a little bit longer.

When you do decide to have sex though be sure to use the proper contraceptives.

Don't let him pressure you into having sex. Do what feels right.

Hope this helps

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