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anonymous
writes: Is not letting yourself fall in love a selfish act?Not sure if I an scared because I know love pushes the boundaries of our heart and makes us experience more.If I resist love and it happens anyway I think that might make it more real and true. classic mind and heart tease I know!What are your thoughts? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Let me tell you, that I have been like this since the very first time I was hurt. With all those years, I never was able to give myself fully. I had an ex-beau who I think about everyday since I broke it off with him. He was in love with me and I was with him, but I couldn't admit it to myself and cheated on him so I would not be hurt first. At that time I thought I was not in love with him. So I, married someone else that I am not in love with.Every day went by and I thought about my ex. 13 years later, it is still the same story. I cry every day that I wish that I could go back and change it, but I can't, he is now married with kids. Too late for me. Do not put yourself in this situation.
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