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Is my mom right to confront the ex wife?

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Question - (4 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My Uncle is divorced and shares custody of his daughter with his ex-wife.

His ex-wife was caught cheating on him multiple times as well as other things that I am not aware of.

The ex-wife accused me of kissing my little cousin when I was thirteen and ten years older than her.I DID NOT kiss her.

The ex-wife has manipulated the daughter into saying multiple things that would play out in her favor such as when the daughter held a hockey stick to my other boy cousin and asked him to strip when he was around 3.

However the ex-wife manipulated the story and said that my boy cousin was the one with the hockey stick.

The ex-wife also used to beat my uncle and it was clearly evident by the bruises on his body(Face/Arms)

I am not sure what to do as I think the ex-wife is taking me to court 4 years later about something that never happened.

I know I didn't kiss my little cousin but I'm still nervous.I think the ex-wife has some crazy mental disorder because she is crazy.

My mother plans to confront the ex-wife after she claimed her daughter wasn't in a safe environment.Is my mom right to do so?

I mean the ex-wife cheated on my uncle when their daughter was across the hall from her. She also has the tendency to drink excess amounts of alcohol and ends up urinating her self.

What do I do????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

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Thanks once again!

I'm just nervous about the whole situation and I didn't do anything. Personally I want my mom to hit her for the pain she caused my Uncle but I really don't want their to be problems.

If the charges are pressed aren't I labeled as a sex offender?Being sexually involved with family members makes me twitch yet alone a little girl.

I really do want to find a reason to sue her haha

Thanks for the help!

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

rcn agony auntAnyone can press charges, it's up to the District Attorney to determine whether to move forward with them or not. Lie detector tests are not admissible in court. If she continues with the threats, talk to an attorney to see if you have valid reason for a harassment suite.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

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Thank you!Yes everyone in the family doesn't like her and thinks she's crazy aside from my uncle!

But can she even press charges in the first place?I really don't want to go to court in the first place.I also am afraid of lie detectors as I saw a show on how they are unreliable!

Thank you for the response!!

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

rcn agony auntThe ex-wife definitely has something mentally wrong with her. If your mom confronts her, and it gets heated, the legal authorities could be involved.

If there is a real chance of her taking you to court, it's time to check out consultations with attorneys. They can give you advice that will help you.

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