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30-35,
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writes:My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We used to talk almost all day, everyday, but naturally that has stopped being the norm now. My problem is this: I write to him, but it takes him a week to answer me. He says he's busy with work, and I understand that, but the thing is I see that he's been active on the social networking sites. He has a right to do whatever he wants, but I get paranoid because, "why doesn't he want to spend that time with me?" I don't want to ask if he's bored with me because I don't want to sound un-confident. I don't really think I have a question to ask, but I needed to hear advice from others.Thanks!
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reader, lostinlove2007 +, writes (20 March 2010):
It shouldn't take him a week to respond to you. He sounds like he may be pulling back a bit. Don't worry too much maybe he just needs a little space. Why don't you try not contacting him for awhile just spend time hanging out with friends and not focusing on him. You deserve to find a guy who will look for you and pay a lot of attention to you. Best of luck!
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