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writes:My husband is very warm, loving and tender but rather inactive in our love department. Is he feigning impotency or is he just taking an indifferent and passive stance? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Maybe he's bored? Too comfortable? Or feeling low at the moment? Whatever the reason, there's only one person who can set you straight: him. Talk to him: you're married, talking about these things should be second nature to you two.
Let him know how you're feeling and he may open up and let you know his side of things. There may be a reason he doesn't want sex or maybe he's just happy without it at the moment. Then, once you know, you can work through it together and hopefully find a compromise which makes you both happy.
You won't find anything out wondering about what's going on in people's heads. The only way to sort something like this out is to talk it over and find out the reasons. Good luck.
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