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writes:I am a 20 year old man, my girlfriend and I are very much in love. She told me at the beginning of our relationship that she had sex with her best friend "a girl", I was fine with that. It's not uncommon for girls to experiment under the age of 20. This was about a year ago. She only watches lesbian porn, she says it turns her on but she could never see herself ever having a relationship with a girl. Recently she has told me that she would hook up with a girl again, but under the terms of "fun only". Is my girlfriend bi, bicurious, I know she's not a lesbian, or is she just open minded sexually? I mean I'm straight and I would never hook up with a dude. She says she is straight not bi, bicurious, or lesbian...she just wants to have sex with a chick for fun. What should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 June 2010):
Won't work. It's not cheating if everything is consensual. But you can be sure that it will put a strain on it all. And she may not come back. Worse, even of you do end up marrying, it won't stop her cheating. I seriously think that if she wants to have her fun, that it's better for you to let her go completely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think she may just be sexually attracted to chicks as well as me. Honestly I'm thinking along the lines of letting her get her "girl on girl" fantasies out of the way while she's young so that down the road if we do end up tieing the knot she would have no reason to stray away from our marriage. Do you think that it is cheating if she has sex with a girl and it's consentual with all 3 parties? I told her today that I want her to get it out of her system now before we move on any further into our relationship. What do you think? Honestly her hooking up with a chick turns me on, but she I don't want to share my relationship status with another girl..."my girl has a girlfriend" is out of the question.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 June 2010):
Sounds to me like she's bi, but she's taking you for a ride. She can't be your girlfriend while she wants to have fun. Don't be second best and don't be taken for a ride. If she wants to have fun, dump her.
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