Is my ex trying to rekindle something and wanting me back slowly? Lonng post but I need advice!! Thanks!

A female age 41-50, *obme writes:

Well I kicked this New Year off with on hell of a bang! I get offered a job I never expected I would ever have and had a great interview! Waiting now till 1-28 to see if I did get it.Double the money and laid back job with me as a front end manager.My daughter returned home after seeing and visiting her dad and my ex in GA, SURPRISE there! The 2 days before she was going to come home as he was taking her back to me, my ex calls my home then my cell.Talks to me like we were best friends again..I didn't think anything of it.The day he was leaving to bring her home he starts texting me and calls me ..wanting to stay with me and being very nice..hmm..whatever I thought as he has stayed here before and gave me gas and money that I needed and took us all out alot to nice dinners I could never afford.Well normally after he would leave here the contact would stop it be 100% sexual in texts and calls.This time he is texting me as he wakes up daily and now has me calling him at night or he calls me.I get 5-10 texts all day from him every day since the day he returned back to GA.Tonite we were on the phone just talking and he asked me all sorts of questions on fixing his myspace profile and adding me on it.I have not been on his myspace since we were married.That was weird..So I accept after he admitted to have looked at my profile alot over the last year to "keep up with me in my life".Some of his texts have been weird too and not like him! He is referring to "taking me back" if I was bi too..knowing I would never do that EVER! He has made that suggestion 4 times this week and each time I reply NEVER and NOT and he says he will just dream.He is talking to me like we are true friends and I am thinking am I missing something since this isn't like him in the last 2 years at all! The guy I was seeing totally screwed me over sleeping with someone for the last 2 weeks and I just found out and we are no longer talking too.Sad thing is that guy I was seeing has been having MULTIPLE women and was just stringing me along.Thankfully I didn't sleep with him!! :) I have NEVER heard my ex once say he would think of taking me back on any calls and texts till now all on text messages always with him starting the texts daily.Talk to you later is what he says now as we get off the phone and I am so confused like is he wanting me back and joking about the bi thing knowing I wouldn't do that ever? Like this is just his way of putting it out there and I am dumb founded and never thought of this situation EVER.I know my ex has banned his ex girlfriend from his life as he dumped her he said a week before he came here to be with me.I thought, maybe he has realized he screwed up big-time and that I was the best he has ever had and now he has known that.Finally, but alot too late, I cant trust him since he kicked me and my daughters out and sent us back to IN. I am only trying to be his friend and I see that feelings are getting scattered and now I have dreamt of him and I.He is telling me alot of his life more now too..weird as hell as fate has done this and I am in shock in ways but still living like I always have. :) Is my ex trying to rekindle something and wanting me back slowly?

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