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writes:so my ex girlfriend has just told me that, if our age difference which is 11yrs, and she didnt have 2 kids wed be pretty much perfect for eachother we get along found eachother attractive and enjoyed our company. is this just her way of playing with me, does she mean it as shes said it, or is it her way of saying that we could try again and shes testing the water?
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reader, 02DuszJ +, writes (28 February 2018):
 Two kids are going to take up a lot of time in her life, leaving her little time for messing guys around.. she's obviously at a mature stage where she wants to prioritise the most important things in life.
Take her for her word because most women of age 25+ don't play games like that.. she's a mature woman with two kids, if you keep bothering her you're just going to push her away.
I think you should focus on yourself and improving your own life i.e. trying new things, pursuing a career. You seem like a great guy with a lot to give- there's billions of other women on the planet who are at the same stage of their lives as you who will want you.
If she initiates any hook -ups turn her down. That means she's using you and would mean she's messing you around. But she doesn't sound the type.
Take her for her word, your exes for a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2018): Why are you still in-touch with your ex and having this kind of discussion? Did you contact her with the intent of attempting a reconciliation? Haven't you gotten over her by now?
You got a high compliment and shot-down at the same time.
Rhetorically; if you were both in a perfect-world, and the reality wasn't as it is. You'd be perfect! I do note some sarcasm that may have gone over your head! A little taste of brutal millennial-humor!
She is clearly telling you, NO WAY! I think she was pretty clear about it.
Note the age-group indicated above your post as between 22-25! Obviously she isn't between 11-15 years old with two kids!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 February 2018):
 No, I think she is being honest.
What she is REALLY saying is, I don't thin we will work because - 11 years difference and her having two kids.
My advice? Find someone closer to your own age who is on the same stage in life as you are.
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