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writes:I am 28 years old. I lived for 2 years with my fiance in that time,we NEVER MARRIED because after giving me the engagement ring, he realized he was not 100% sure about marrying me, according to him because of the age gap,he is 57 years old now and in that time he was 54. I met a guy on the internet, who is my bf now. He lived in the U.s.A and left his country because of the economical sitaution and also to be with me. I never felt such great love for him, but he is the one that gave me psycological support when I felt like shit, because of the breaking up with my fiance. NOW we live together and he asked me to marry him, I said YES, but now my ex has come back to me, has been calling me, well since we separated he has never stop calling me, but he knew and told me ( You have to move on), I took his advice and started dating my BF now.Now My ex fiance, has been trying to get me back, he gave me a new engagement ring, he told me to keep it because that way he will erase the bad memory of the last time he never commiteed to me, so now I have economical issues, I work all day long,my bf gets $ from his parents and seems not to be able to get a job. I am concerned about our future and wonder if it is that my soul mate is my ex??? He is not rich, but he lives Ok, so now I do know. I am the one that supprts my parents that is why I work all day long, so that my parents are Ok, but my bf does not help me out with anything. he just pays the house stuff, but he does not buy me anything, does not help me in anything, what should I do?Another problem is that one day I slept with my ex and I did not feel good, what does that mean? then, another time I felt good. lately, my bf and me we do not even have sex anymore. I do not know what to think???? I am getting crazy.My fear is to hurt my bf feelings, leaving him e bsince hought new stuff for the house we rent. he does not have anybody in my country. HELP PLEASEwhat should I do, stay with my bf or try agian with my ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2009): Both of them is not your man. One is too old a(57 year old)or may be he is a cheater, a lot of cheaters on internet.
Your ex is bad too. Try to find other guys.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 October 2009):
Neither of these men are right for you at all. When you meet a soul mate, no other person in the world matters as much as they do. If either of these men were Mr Right, you'd know about it. Neither are right for you, so you'd be better to leave them both and try and find a guy who is right for you, and who you really really love.
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