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female
age
26-29,
*urlyq8
writes:My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up.Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me.I questioned why me instead of her.He told me that he never really talks to her, he thinks shes nice and stuff, but he dosnt like her enough to date her, and how he always though I was hot and really pertty.He isnt interested in the general idea of dating right now.I asked him if he would chose X if he was intrested in dating anyone.(X is the girl word got around he allegedly likes.Plus my friends told me he was going around denying he had any lasting feelings for me.He replied with "yeah i guess, but I still have thoughts of you too."I'm mostly healed....but i still have some feelings for him...what is going through his head...is he just playing a game with me? or deep down might he actually have some feelings for me too?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 January 2013):
 He has sexual thoughts for you,not feeelings. At his age, he has sexual thoughts for mostly any woman he comes across, including the 50something school librarian if she is still decent looking. The difference is , that with you he's got game , he thinks or knows that you'd be compliant and available without too much effort from his side.
He admitted openly that if he should date, would date another girl, and that he does not have lasting feelings from you. How much feeling do you think you can milk out of this rather clear cut situation ?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (7 January 2013):
This is pretty easy:
He wants to have sex with you. Nothing more.
He wants to have sex with her. Nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2013): It sounds like he is trying to get over you and X is someone who he feels might help him move on. And yeah it sounds like he still has a thing for you. But it doesn't sound strong enough so that it is anything you need to concern yourself with. Yeah he may have resounding feelings for you but it doesn't sound like anything so extraordinary that you should lose sleep over or even worry about.
I say, an ex is an ex for a reason. Move on.
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