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writes:I get answers saying that it's a psychological thing in my brain - the reason why I dont get erections. Is that true? If so what can I do to stop worrying about my penis size because I think that since I'm not 6 inches erect I'm 5 and a half erect, my girlfriend won't enjoy the sex or bj's or hand jobs she wants to give me. If it's a brain thing and psychi thing what should I do or could I do to stop worrying and thinking about it, my girlfriend says that I don't need to worry about it and that she likes me for me and not my penis size. Should I stop masturbating and watching porn too and let her just give me handjobs instead?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 The only way to be sure:
1. See your doctor for a physical
2. Stop watching porn for a while
3. Stop having sex for a while
4. Stop masturbating for a while
5. See what happens
You keep asking the same question over and over again. You obviously are worried and upset. So why not take concrete steps to figure out what is causing it? To my mind, the first place to go is to see your doctor. You could have high blood pressure that you didn't know about and it has caused some vascular (vein) issues for you that is causing you erection problems.
When you don't know the reason for something, work through all the steps. Asking us over and over again will only get you similar answers each time. We don't know what's causing it. You can find out if you go and do the brave things, as I outlined.
And you are the one that is hung up on your penis size; your girlfriend is telling you the truth. Give her the courtesy of believing her and believing IN her.
Take care.
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reader, kickstick24  +, writes (10 December 2009):
stop masterbating, it'll help ALOT trust me. It is a psycological thing. if i were you, just relax and try to enjoy the experience of sex and what not, worrying will only make it worse. stop the porn, stop the masterbating, and let your girlfriend do all the work heheh. you'll thank me for it.
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