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*irgie_99
writes:I have been together with my boyfriend for nearly a year now; as expected things were perfect in the beginning, we did everything together and spent so much time hanging out and talking and having fun and things were wonderful. After a few months I had to go to school about 6 hours away from him, so once every month he'd come spend a long weekend with me and things would be awesome too. We used to text and call each other all the time, he'd tell me "Good morning beautiful =D" but then I wanted to join the Army, and not the National Guard like he did and that meant I was leaving.Eventually, after I got home from school and was waiting to leave for the Army, the texts stopped, the calls stopped, he came to my house once every two weeks or so and he became more and more distant. As time got to when I was leaving, I couldn't leave because I became pregnant, we decided we couldn't have the kid and got it taken care of. I had to stay with him since my parents disowned me.I was sad when he was leaving the house all the time to go spend time with his "best friend"...which normally wouldn't be a big deal except his best friend is his ex girlfriend; they dated for 5 years, both cheated on each other and stuff. I had found ways of reading his text messages and don't think he's cheating...but I don't think he's comfortable with me...He ignores me to play World of Warcraft all the time, ditches me to go hang out with his ex girlfriend.Today was his grandma's funeral, I didn't go because he didn't want me to. At first I thought it was because he didn't really consider me to still be part of his family and I could understand that. Then I thought, maybe it was because he didn't want me to see him upset, since guys are always trying to act strong and tough, but he had gone to see his ex girlfriend right after the funeral and talked and cried to her for a while. Since he got home, he's been quiet and won't look at me...Is my boyfriend uncomfortable with me? Does he just not feel it anymore?
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reader, PissyNovelist  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 I'm just giving out some opinions that form in my mind when I read this.
He's going to see his Ex... ALOT. What you typed about that makes me suspicious. Plus, he came back form her house and now, won't look at you and he's quiet. That could be a sign that he's having an affair with his Ex. About the texting... well, he could just be really carefull.
It's another possibility that he has lost interest in you. Maybe he doesn't feel it anymore.
Also, there could just be a crisis he feels like dealing with.
That's all I can come up with!
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