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female
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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend makes me wonder because he's been ejuculating outside , everytime he takes it out when the big moment comes . I'm worried if he got satisfied or ????? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CMMP +, writes (13 February 2013):
You didn't write anything that indicates he's not satisfied, just that he may not want a baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013): This may be hard to answer without knowing whether you and him want kids or not, and whether you are using any sort of birth control.
Is it that he's capable of ejaculating in you, but choses not to, or does he need different stimulation to finish?
It sounds like he's pulling out to not get you pregnant, so you may want to have a conversation about what you both want to make sure you're on the same page.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (13 February 2013):
Of course he is; I did it that way for years before we got married it's fine. He's REAL happy, don't worry about that, you should be too, no prego worries that way.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 February 2013):
have you asked him why he does it?
have you asked him if he's satisfied?
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