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writes:I know this is stereotypical, but the only time he gets off is when he has sex from behind. And he always want to have anal. Just recently we watched an immoral video, i believe, about some horse f*****g a guy. I was disgusted. He was amused, watched it again, and got hard. He got hard watching some man getting f****d in the ass! I can't figure out if he is gay or not. He said he's not; he hasn't got mad about me asking but said he is when asked by other people and changes the subject. I am so disgusted about this whole situation especially about the video I just witnessed! I really feel like vomiting and this whole situation is freaking me out. I thought I loved him but I don't know because it is so disgusting to me. (Not being gay, but being with someone who may be gay and gets off seeing some guy getting f****d by a horse.)[Mod note:] Are you sure it wasn't a Shetland pony? Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (26 October 2008):
 If he was gay, why would he be with you? I know some guys act like they got something to hide, but does he act this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Dear Poster
Thank goodness, "horses for courses"; not everybody has the same taste and are the same way inclined!
You have received good advice from the Uncles and Aunts.
I just want to suggest that you should do some stock taking and consider if you and this guy are sexually compatible?
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): You seriously need to talk to him, as distasteful as it is, and try to discover what it was that turned him on in the film was it the man the horse or the act. Inf you can do that you may be able to settle your own mind what his preference is and whether you can live with his brand of sexuality.
For I don't know about being gay but he definitely has got issues which are causing you concern and distress and that shouldn't happen in a loving relationship.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (25 October 2008):
 rofl shetland pony what does it matter it has four legs and a tail an a mane so for the sake of it well call it a horse/ and mod for asking that have you seen it?.. on to the real problem..he doesnt have to be gay to like anal some guys like it because its tighter i dont think they have the same high morals when it comes to that..all though yes the horse thing is rather disgusting. i wouldnt put it in the same league as what im going to say but people who like the whole hardcore sex to some people is disgusting and rather questionable behaviour but we cannot judge just choose what we want to do and not be influenced by something we do not like..if it were me ide be really questionable about the situation not the gay part but the horse part is what would worry me/ is their other stuff he hasnt watched with you ? worse or better..you need to think about what whether this is the type of behaviour your going to allow in your life/ thats my opinion anyway good luck aphex xx
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