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writes: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months. He's my first serious boyfriend, but lately im worried that he's cheating on me. Theres this girl in his Science and Art class and he's ALWAYS talking about her. He says he's just talking about her until we find something else to talk about, but I dont know. She slaps his butt all the time, and he even told me this- but he said he tells her to stop.. even though one time she did it right in front of me and he didnt say anything. Whenever we dont hang out, he doesnt call me until 9, 10 oclock- and when I asked him what he did all day he just says "Nothing" or "Nothing important". Or when we pick him up at night for certain events, he smells like... well basically like sex (thats the cleanest way I can put it). Does anyone else think this sounds suspicious.. should I talk to him about it, and if so- how should I go about doing that? Reply to this Question
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
 dear reader oh dear you do need to have a word with him i would say ask her but since you are school age i wouldn't advice that she would only stir up trouble so i think you should ask him if you know him that well you will know when his lying .
keep me posted
all the best xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2006): I think it depends on how old you both are?
I could imagine much younger school children doing it, but there is no way you would flaunt someone you are with. If any thing, he would cover up his tracks, never talk about her and she would never do anything like slap his butt in front of you.
To answer your last question, of course you should talk about it with him. I'm sure he will want to stop you from being upset - it's what partners in relationships are supposed to do isn't it?
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