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30-35,
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writes:My aunt had sex with my ex-boyfriend(he was my boyfriend until they had sex, but I dumped him) and he's 17 and she's 32. They talk on the phone and go places together like they are a couple which they claim they are not and she is walking around here like she did not do anything and I do not know what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): your aunt can have this cheater. you will find a better guy for yourself. if he can do this to you with your aunt then he is lowere than low. your aunt on the other hand has no morals. she may be an adult but is actually acting like a sly slut. you are better off without these 2 in your life.
please take note of what the previous poster had to say, he makes sense.
good luck, chin up. yes, you are hurting now but soon you will learn to accpet the situation. their betrayal of you only make them more scum. your life is more important.. do not waste your positive energies on them. just be indifferent. in time it will be better.
so please put on a smile, wipe those tears, let your hair down and go out with some good friends. and have fun, you know you can and please do, with kids your own age.but what ever you do, please DONOT take this guy back, you are not a fool so please do not let anyone treat you like one. also do not sit and wait for him to break up,
remember this he is HISTORY.
I don't know what you are going to do with your aunt. you have to have some sort of relationship with her but please keep it to a minimal. do not show her that you are hurt. take it in your stride and know that you are a better person for it.
Best of luck.
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reader, Who +, writes (20 April 2009):
 "...I do not know what to do?"You need to stay as far away from both of them as possible. Your Aunt, you are likely going to have to talk to her sometimes; be nice and answer her but keep the conversation light and trivial.Your ex, stay away from him. Especially when he breaks up with your aunt and tries to get back with you. He cheated once in a way he showed he does not care about getting caught, he will do it again and again.It should not matter to you whether they are “dating” or not. They both betrayed you. Chalk it up to experience and try to learn from this experience in your future relationships.Best of luck.
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