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writes:My husband has his own cleaning business and he's an alcoholic. We have a girl that works for us and she is also an alcoholic/drug person. She will miss like 14 days of work at a time but my husband won't get rid of her. Is he cheating?
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 how bad of an Alcoholic is he? he might be a crossdress for all you know.
an Alcoholic Crossdresser.
I'm not going to answer whever the drunky is playing hide the sausage, Does it matter at this point?
You don'#t trust your husband Reguardless of this possible affair. he's an Alcoholic..
why are you staying with him? you're clearly unhappy and clearly in denial.
you and your husband have bigger issues at hand that a possible affair.
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reader, kittikat +, writes (23 March 2008):
 I agree with ShouldKnowBetter...I'm a recovering alcoholic(9 months sober in 5 days!) and we do tend to try to help each other out. If these are the only things that make you suspicious, I think that you should relax a little. I don't know if your husband has admitted a problem or not, that plays a huge part in this answer. If he has, he is probably some type of support system for her. If she's struggling and in active recovery-mode it's probably very innocent. Again, i he's in recovery we have a need to help others and he may be fulfilling something personal in helping her. Talk to him about it. I don't know enough about the cirumstances, but I don't think it's necessarily something to stress over. If he's not admitting to a problem, you may have a totally different situation on your hands. Bless you for dealing with an alcoholic, you're an Angel :-)
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reader, laine01 +, writes (22 March 2008):
laine01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHE HAS HER CLOTHES IN THE VAN PANTS UNDERWEAR TAMPONS
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reader, laine01 +, writes (22 March 2008):
laine01 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIS HE CHEATING
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (22 March 2008):
um.
you know, the most disturbing part of this post is the title.
"Is my Alcoholic husband cheating"
If you husband is an Alcoholic then you got bigger problems than his partying the beef bus in tuna town.
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter +, writes (22 March 2008):
Just because he wont get rid of her doesnt mean that he is having an affair with her, if they are both admitted alcoholics perhaps he just sympathises with her condition?
Are there other reasons you think they are having an affair? Have you asked him why he is keeping her on with her poor work record without being accusatory?
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