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writes:My girl left me for another men, she is married i'm single ,the day before her birthday he told me to break up, she said she don't want to jeopardize her daugther possible custody if the husband find out about us, also her job is at risk too, Im a contractor and she is the encharge of the contracts in a company that i work for.I had that relationship for 4 yeras and 7 months, treat her like a queen, never cheat on her, i love the girl deeple, couple weeks ago i saw her, we tal in the professional way , but also somehow she gave me a hint she miss me, couple days later i kiss her twice, she did not kiss me back, but she accept both kisses. She told me things has change in her life, she look skinny and lost 20 pounds because the stress , also she is taking valium and diazepam daily, she said help her to calm down , because her situation.I call her on friday, she said she left her husband, her daughter is living with her,and she gave up her house that had for more than 15 years, and she is seeking divorce, also told me im no longer in the picture, she said finally is free after 3 marriages and 4 or 5 affairs in the last 12 years, and she want to be free and start dating, and his new boyfriend is another contractor for the company.My question is this: Why she make a lifetime changing decision, in less than 3 months,???Also if I have to fight back or just leave her alone??Im a great guy, honest decent great worker,independent,and i did everything for her, even be faithful for those many years when she was married.Medication is something to do with her decision or she just want to move on in a diferent scenario?Hope i was clear , english is not my best.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (22 March 2009):
Sweetheart.... You have been carrying on an affair with a married woman for 4 years? She's had 4-5 affairs over 12 years? It sounds like she has been making flawed decisions for a very long time, with or without medication.
Why do you think she would be faithful to you if you were to get back together? Why do you not believe you deserve a good, honest, faithful woman in your life who is true to you? I know you may be heartbroken, but I think her exit from your life is the best thing that could have happened to you. You sound like a wonderful man. Let her go and find someone who can truly make you happy... and who will be happy to kiss you back.
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